Having a Break in Dom/Sub Relationship

For almost 2 years, I'm proud to say that my Dom and I were very consistent in our Dom/Sub relationship despite the hardships that hindered us. He gives me tasks, orders, playtimes, and even exploring with other guys which I am happy to do so as his Submissive. So, in short it became a big part of us and our everyday lives. 

Recently, my Daddy (which is also my bf) and I have decided to have a break in our Dom/Sub relationship. It sounds frightening right? My first reaction was sadness and confusion. I thought everything was organized, perfect, and we're both happy but he asked for a break. I've also questioned myself, maybe I'm lacking as a submissive? The reason for a break was because of his own concern. 

Thoughts keep running in my mind, like how long will this break going to last? Is there a possibility that we won't continue again in our Dom/Sub relationship? What if it affects our relationship as a bf/gf? Is it going to be the same if we're back again? At first I was worried. My Daddy assured me that our bf/gf relationship isn't involved in this. I also realised that I know our relationship will be fine even without our Dom/Sub relationship. 

During our break, we just enjoyed our days just like a normal bf and gf. It's hard at first because you're used to do the routines and not involving about Dom/Sub but the break really did well and helped for both of us. 

After days or a week I think, my Daddy and I are back again finally! I'm his official sub again and we had few changes. We promised to ourselves that we will take things slow as he always say "Step by step" and we won't pressure ourselves. 

I think everyone shouldn't be scared of having a break. It's better to have a break than you push yourselves to do things that won't make you both happy. A little break is healthy too. It's a great way to sort and discover your feelings, certain things and re-thinking of the whole situation if it's really for you or not. Don't take it as a bad thing. We just really need to be open and honest with our partners to make the relationship work and last. :)

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Meet my best half

 To my Daddy Dom, 

I want to dedicate this blog post to the most loving and best person I know in the world who's always on my side and who owns my heart..not just my Daddy but also my boyfriend. I want to talk about him in my blog too so you kitties can also get to know the man who's always making me happy and the reason why I started blogging. I think you also deserved to know him too not just about me because he's the one who has a big part of me. I wouldn't be the same sexyvixen without him. 

Mhm Okay I would describe him as a very playful, confident, naughty, affectionate guy who's always eager to learn, explore and try things out. He's very sensitive about how others feel, especially me. He easily makes friends which is totally opposite of me nyahaha. He is easy to talk with. We all have our bad sides also but I don't love him less because of that. 

The moment I will open my eyes, our chats will be filled with his sweet morning messages and pictures sometimes that will make me smile and make my morning. 

He always makes sure to have a good day ahead for us even though he could be busy at work. He always makes sure to check me out always and tells me how much he misses me and leaves some tasks for me. Even on our bad days, he always makes sure we talk and make up and not send me to bed with a heavy feeling. Everynight, he tucks me to bed giving me and my stuffies kisses. He always makes sure to know what I'm feeling, he always hears me out, knows when I'm feeling heavy heart. He doesn't invalidate my thoughts and feelings. He always knows what are the right words to tell to calm me down. I couldn't ask for more right? I got the best Daddy and bf. He is my comfort and my shelter. I feel like sometimes I'm not doing enough for him because he really makes efforts for me and for us. He treats me like a little princess that everyone wishes for. I just want to say that I have the best Daddy and bf in the world and I'm so lucky that we found each other after years of searching. It's not easy to be in a long distance relationship but like he always says we make the best out of it and always find our way. 

Mhm I think the point of this blog is also to let your dom know you appreciate them because they also need affection and care what they give to us. Don't forget to show appreciation to our Doms! They are softie too like littles *giggles*

I just want to let people know that I have the most amazing Daddy ever.I know it's hard to be a Dom and I really appreciate everything he does. My Daddy couldn't be a perfect Dom or Daddy that others will describe but he always tries his best to be one for me. I love my Daddy slash my bf too with all my heart ♥