Cuckold thru LDR? Is it possible?

Hi there! Are you in a long distance relationship that is looking for something new and fun to try with your bf? Yes you're in the right place! I know LDR can be hard sometimes and you really find ways to spice things up. If this is your cup tea, I am sure you will want to give this a try but if it's not still keep reading!

If you have read my previous blogs, I am sure that you will know that my Daddy and I are in a long distance relationship and haven't met yet. We are almost 2 years together and 1 year as bf/gf and still counting. One of the struggles of the couples who is in LDR is how are we going to have fun? Sure there's a lot of ways to have fun like video calling, sext, etc. I'm not saying that these are boring but it's not bad to have a new way to have fun. My Daddy who is really creative and always has ideas also,  his naughty mind (also mine haha) led us to try this. We are always up for everything and we're vocal to what we want. We can almost talk about everything which I love the most in our relationship. 

Okay,  I know it may sound impossible but yes, you've read it right! I will share my experiences, thoughts and how my Daddy and I were able to do this though we are in a Long Distance Relationship.

 I know some of you guys are very kinky and adventurous like us. Guys and even gals have some kink on what they call 'cuckold'. Cuckold is sharing your partner to have sex/ or sexual relationship with other guys/girls (correct me if I'm wrong). Some of you guys sure are aware on what is cuckold and even into this kink. But the big question is..is it possible in LDR? Well my answer is YES. Let's flash back a little. My Daddy and I were able to try this two years ago. I know my Daddy really has a thing with cuckolds and I ended up liking it too. He would find a guy for me that he could talked then, when he likes the guy, he will give my kik account so we could have talk and also make a group for the three of us. The guy and I will have small talk and be comfy then we could start to get naughty. Sadly, I think it didn't work out much since we didn't really plan well on how we will do since it's our first time trying it. I am still able to find a stranger guy in talkwithstranger and had fun with him. I just sent screenshots of our conversations to my Daddy and he really liked it. We didn't have time to try it again because we developed feelings for each other and really enjoyed our time getting to known as bf/gf.

Back to the present! We have decided to give it a try again but this time we will choose the guys much better and will set rules for them to follow. This could really depend on couple how would you want it but here are some for my Daddy and I:

1. No sending of face pictures.

2. No video calling.

3. Always tell Daddy if we are going to have playtime beforehand. 

4. If I feel uncomfy, do not do it. 

5. No going behind my daddy's back 

6. Ask permission before talking with guys. 

 

Those are only a few, it would really depend on you guys and once you are in the situation you will know what the rules to set. We would find potential guys and even post on ddlgfriends then, once we my Daddy talked with them. I would have a private chat with them and tell Daddy if I am ready to have a group chat including him. My Daddy does not join and just reads and rarely talks if needed. I would find it off if the guy started to get naughty with my Daddy too (haha). He would use me after sometimes once I'm done with getting naughty with a guy which I find it hotter cause I'm still extra sensitive from the previous play. 

I really enjoyed doing this and I'm sure my Daddy as well. Just also a warning. We won't be able to do this without trust to each other. He always got my back and protects me when I would find situations uncomfy. If you guys have issues, I think it will be great to settle with that first because it's not really easy to try this. 

You may be wondering, why don't you guys just get a permanent guy for you? No we are not really interested in having a polygamous relationship. We just want something that doesn't require deep relationship and only casual. We even wanted just one time and really just having fun with me. We don't want more than that. Poly relationships are way different and complicated than doing cuckolds which could be one time only. It is also hard to find a guy who will suite us, because we both need to agree if we want the guy to play with me or not. If Daddy disagreed, he will be dismissed. 

Disclaimer, we do not do it always and find guys for me because it is really taking our time together. We also take pauses and plan to give it a try again maybe soon. It will really depends on you guys, how often will you want it. 

So yes that's how we do it! If you guys have questions or clarifications. You can leave a comment down below and I will be willing to answer it! See you in my next post! 

How I met my Daddy

Hi!! In this post, I decided to talk about how I met and where did I met my Daddy. I know you might be a little curious where, when and how I met him :P  

As a little that was only starting before, I really don't have an idea where and how would I find a Daddy or Dom. I am a clueless little. I asked myself, how could I find a Daddy? I know I just wanted a Daddy I could chat and talk over the phone. I'm not yet ready for meet ups!

I was only 16 when I started to search for my Daddy. It was summer when I got so into chatting to strangers. Omegle was sooo popular that time, so I got curious and try it out myself. You can use Omegle without registration so it is easy and not annoying unlike other sites. You can also add your interest or words that you are interested with. I find it fun and interesting to meet people from different country. I met nice and not so good people.

I got bored with using Omegle because much of bots and also perv guys so I searched for different websites. The second site I used is "Talkwithstranger". There is also no need to register. You just have to type the name you want to use and you can now talk with random strangers. It is just really random chosen unlike in Omegle that you can type your interest. Once I met a potential Daddy, we would add each other in Kik.

It wasn't easy to find a Daddy for me. I have trial and errors. I think my longest talk with a Daddy only lasted for a week or so but the rest it will just last up to 3 days or worse just the same day. I have met a lot of Daddies and some fake Daddies or dom that seems like all they want is to get naughty :/. They would entertain me and my questions first but soon they will ask for naughty stuffs. I know I am such a meanie little :P I am not quite sure if I had an hiatus in finding a Daddy. I mean, I go to school and do school works too so I am not always on that site.

>Faaaast forward<

So that was the two sites I used. But where did I met my Daddy? Guess it! . . Yup! I met him on Omegle around October 2018 and I was 17 turning 18 that time :3. We met because we had the same interest and that was a "Daddy" tag. I am really meticulous in finding my Daddy. I want a Daddy that does not only want naughty stuff. I want a caring and interesting to talk with. I prefer a Daddy aged 28-35 and he's 32! I just find this age bracket hot :P I don't really mind the age gap.

I cannot remember much what we talked about. But I always say for sure that I want a caring and not just naughty Daddy. I just remember that he did not try to ask naughty pictures or what at first and was really nice. We exchange some face pics and I think he was really hot and handsome haha. He was not much talkative so I was thinking should I still keep talking to him? I was chatting and entertaining some guys too so he was not the only guy I am chatting that time. We chatted for few days and he is the only one who lasted among the guys I am talking with.

We did not do sexual stuff at first so, I was like "Hmmm.. I like him" haha because the usual guys I met want only naughty stuff! so, my thoughts on him that he is patient :P I think I stopped talking or finding other guys after our days of talking. He is still timid but my inner little says I know I could bring out his true personality hihi. Maybe around a month or so after we met, we just started to discuss about sexual stuff. I mean we both know from the start that we are into Daddy and Little but ddlg and Dom/Sub have variations too. We discover and exchange questions about our likes, kinks and more. I really got comfy with him fast as he was very sweet and caring Daddy. He doesn't push me whenever I am not comfortable of what he wants. He barely even ask at first, maybe he was shy too? But it's cute 'cause seems like I am the one pushing myself to him haha.

Few weeks then turns out into months, we got closer and already build like the base of our relationship :3 I already call him Daddy already, and he calls me Kitten *blushes*. we explored first Pet play. I never tried Pet Play before but I ended up loving it.( Fun fact, I am scared of cats before I met him now I totally love cats and kitten!!) We did not have rules right from the start and we are just free to do whatever we feel like that day. I love how he treats me as a little. I never been treated this way before. We did soft first and now we are getting rougher and wilder :P.

For me, we are completely matched in terms of sexual stuff, and we get along really well. I love his personality and character. He is serious, loving, but also playful! :P. I like talking to him every day because he makes my day complete and he makes me feel happy and cared. We would do video calls and also call from time to time. The difference in our time is 5 hours or 6 hours so it wasn't that hard for us to find time for each other. I had 4 months school break too so we ended up almost spending each day together and get to know well. He really make efforts and shows how much he cared for me so I really ended up liking him. He is very dedicated on being a Daddy for him and I can feel and see that. We did not just connected sexually but also emotionally. I find my comfort in him. He is the perfect Daddy I could ever wish for and I could not ask for more.

We are together for 1 year and 3 months already and still counting. We are able to make the rules that we both agreed and punishments. We are not perfect Daddy little and Dom/Sub as we are still exploring and improving. I feel lucky that I met him and that we met each other. I am not afraid to explore and to try out things as long as I am with him. I love him and he will be my one only Daddy.

Sooo I hope you had fun reading "How I met my Daddy". I hope you will find the right Daddy/Litle for you too! See you on next post!