We join Fetlife!

Recently, my Daddy and I joined a few days or weeks ago in a Kink site called fetlife. We think that this is the perfect platform for us to express ourselves, explore, discover and get to know other people and many more. 

At first, we agreed that I couldn't entertain any other guy without his permission or the guy should at least talk to him first before going straight to my Dm. It's already in our rules that I won't talk to new guys without allowance. He gave me freedom to post what I want but as we see that Doms really control and monitor their sub accounts. I suggested to him that we do the same but I think I also like posting on my own. I would remove it if he didn't agree on what I posted. 

There's no issue in posting pictures of me because first, my Daddy likes when I get feedback and loves and also, I love to show myself. I know he wants the world to see his little slut and how proud he is to have me. I'm still overwhelmed and flattered when guys will love my pictures, comment on it or Dm me. I'm not used to others attention aside from the attention I'm getting from my Daddy. I'm excited to post for more and talk with new people especially look for the one I could play with hihi. 

Fetlife is a huge platform and almost most of the kinks can be found there. There are a lot of groups, discussions and such that you can join. It is a big community and even there's a lot of people, I feel that they're hard to reach. That's only my impression. I know that we really need to reach out and don't expect people to talk to us first. My Daddy and I are always open for getting new contacts! 

If you are a fetlife user and want to check my pictures or if you're curious how I look my account name is Sexyvix19 or just click here.

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30 Days of Submission | Day 1

Yes, my submission has a label though I really cannot say that I strive for these labels intentionally (for some). I mean when I learned about the BDSM or sub/dom relationship maybe yes I could say that I really wanted to become a submissive. Then as I explored, I discovered daddy and little as well and it is somehow related to BDSM which also has a sub/dom in the relationship. So I could say they somehow interrelated. I focused on both labels when I tried to find my Daddy. I could say I am a mix of submissive and a little girl which is both submissive. Even before I tried to enter a relationship. I know to myself that I am these two.

When I met my Daddy, yes we started off not so naughty and we both know we are dom and sub but little did I know that I will have a new label which is pet/kitty. The pet plays are different as well as the BDSM, and DDLG. They are submissive roles but they have different meter or feel. I fell in love with Daddy’s idea of me being a pet, so I consider myself as a pet too. My Daddy and I also do some plays that makes me feel like a slave. He also calls me a slave which I really find arousing.

I think having a label would really help a lot especially to classify myself and in our relationship with my Daddy. You cannot just say you are submissive because there are types of being submissive for me. If our mood wanted to be on the gentle side, probably DDLG, then if we want a little more we could use the label sir/slave. Some might say you cannot be all but that is not true. I believe that if you wanted it and trained with it, you can achieve the label you wanted. I am proud to say that I am mixed because I really wanted to explore a lot. I am really happy with what I have become right now.

Cuckold thru LDR? Is it possible?

Hi there! Are you in a long distance relationship that is looking for something new and fun to try with your bf? Yes you're in the right place! I know LDR can be hard sometimes and you really find ways to spice things up. If this is your cup tea, I am sure you will want to give this a try but if it's not still keep reading!

If you have read my previous blogs, I am sure that you will know that my Daddy and I are in a long distance relationship and haven't met yet. We are almost 2 years together and 1 year as bf/gf and still counting. One of the struggles of the couples who is in LDR is how are we going to have fun? Sure there's a lot of ways to have fun like video calling, sext, etc. I'm not saying that these are boring but it's not bad to have a new way to have fun. My Daddy who is really creative and always has ideas also,  his naughty mind (also mine haha) led us to try this. We are always up for everything and we're vocal to what we want. We can almost talk about everything which I love the most in our relationship. 

Okay,  I know it may sound impossible but yes, you've read it right! I will share my experiences, thoughts and how my Daddy and I were able to do this though we are in a Long Distance Relationship.

 I know some of you guys are very kinky and adventurous like us. Guys and even gals have some kink on what they call 'cuckold'. Cuckold is sharing your partner to have sex/ or sexual relationship with other guys/girls (correct me if I'm wrong). Some of you guys sure are aware on what is cuckold and even into this kink. But the big question is..is it possible in LDR? Well my answer is YES. Let's flash back a little. My Daddy and I were able to try this two years ago. I know my Daddy really has a thing with cuckolds and I ended up liking it too. He would find a guy for me that he could talked then, when he likes the guy, he will give my kik account so we could have talk and also make a group for the three of us. The guy and I will have small talk and be comfy then we could start to get naughty. Sadly, I think it didn't work out much since we didn't really plan well on how we will do since it's our first time trying it. I am still able to find a stranger guy in talkwithstranger and had fun with him. I just sent screenshots of our conversations to my Daddy and he really liked it. We didn't have time to try it again because we developed feelings for each other and really enjoyed our time getting to known as bf/gf.

Back to the present! We have decided to give it a try again but this time we will choose the guys much better and will set rules for them to follow. This could really depend on couple how would you want it but here are some for my Daddy and I:

1. No sending of face pictures.

2. No video calling.

3. Always tell Daddy if we are going to have playtime beforehand. 

4. If I feel uncomfy, do not do it. 

5. No going behind my daddy's back 

6. Ask permission before talking with guys. 

 

Those are only a few, it would really depend on you guys and once you are in the situation you will know what the rules to set. We would find potential guys and even post on ddlgfriends then, once we my Daddy talked with them. I would have a private chat with them and tell Daddy if I am ready to have a group chat including him. My Daddy does not join and just reads and rarely talks if needed. I would find it off if the guy started to get naughty with my Daddy too (haha). He would use me after sometimes once I'm done with getting naughty with a guy which I find it hotter cause I'm still extra sensitive from the previous play. 

I really enjoyed doing this and I'm sure my Daddy as well. Just also a warning. We won't be able to do this without trust to each other. He always got my back and protects me when I would find situations uncomfy. If you guys have issues, I think it will be great to settle with that first because it's not really easy to try this. 

You may be wondering, why don't you guys just get a permanent guy for you? No we are not really interested in having a polygamous relationship. We just want something that doesn't require deep relationship and only casual. We even wanted just one time and really just having fun with me. We don't want more than that. Poly relationships are way different and complicated than doing cuckolds which could be one time only. It is also hard to find a guy who will suite us, because we both need to agree if we want the guy to play with me or not. If Daddy disagreed, he will be dismissed. 

Disclaimer, we do not do it always and find guys for me because it is really taking our time together. We also take pauses and plan to give it a try again maybe soon. It will really depends on you guys, how often will you want it. 

So yes that's how we do it! If you guys have questions or clarifications. You can leave a comment down below and I will be willing to answer it! See you in my next post! 

Kinks of Sexy Vixen

      Hihi hi!!~ In this post I am gonna share in depth what my kinks and fantasies are. For sure I already mention a few or you already got an idea from my previous posts! But now I will share the full details. Maybe after reading this, you may also realize “Oh I love those stuff too!” or you may get interested in trying it as well! I also answered a Jar of Kinks and took a BDSM test and that will show the percentage of my kinkiness hihi!~

These are my kinks as of now and maybe I could have developed more in the future (who knows :3).

1.       DDLG – hihi yes ever since I fell in love with this Kink! I really love being treated like a little girl and having an authoritative figure that will care, discipline, guide, give tasks, rules, and punishments. I love it when my Daddy addresses me as a little girl or baby kitten hihi. I love to be bratty sometimes cause I think it’s fun :P I guess this kink satisfy my emotional needy little side.

·         Age play – Mhmm I really don’t know yet what my little age is. I just love to baby talk, do little stuff like dressing up as a little, having my stuffies and do cute stuffs :P

2.       BDSM – I really think Bdsm and Ddlg are interrelated kinks of mine. I can still be a little girl who submits to my Daddy Dom right?! But sometimes I prefer being treated like a slutty submissive by my Daddy :P I want my Daddy to be harder and rougher on me. Here are the things I like:

·         Roleplaying via chat (for now) since my I am currently in a Long Distance Relationship

·         Orgasm Denial - I always have an edging task every week *pouts

·         Spanking

·         Choking

·         Tying up

·         Gagging

·         Degrading ( a little)

·         I also love to dress up slutty!

3.       Pet play – I love to act and dress up like a kitten! Meow! Hihi funny story before my Daddy and I met, I was really scared of cats but funny how I want to become one now! *giggles* I like when Daddy will treat me like his kitten also I love the idea of being in a leashed, eating in a bowl or maybe in a cage.  I do have Kitty ears, Paws, Tail Plug!

My little friend sent me this one so I answered this Kink Jar :3

Here are also my results to BDSM test!

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Pet

100% Submissive

100% Brat

100% Rope bunny

97% Primal (Prey)

96% Slave

91% Boy/Girl

87% Experimentalist

84% Age player

69% Masochist

67% Voyeur

64% Exhibitionist

64% Degradee

34% Sadist

3% Vanilla  

           Hihi so those what I am really into! Waaah is it few or a lot?! Haha. Even I really do not have an actual experience yet, I already know I would to try all of these with my Daddy ^.^ Feel free to ask me more questions. You could also leave a comment! See you on my next post!~