Best apps for LDR Daddy/Little (updated version)

I've listed 5 of my fave apps before if you've read or saw in my previous post. I want to update you kitties, so here are the current apps we use! If you want to check out the previous one just click here.

Our Home - We are using this now instead of the obedience app to track my tasks, rewards, punishments. You just have to create a family and your Dom will be the admin. There are also categories which you can edit in whatever you like. You could also set points, image, time, reminder, add notes on each task you'll give. My Daddy placed the rewards to reward section and I have to buy it using the points I've earned. The timeline and the calendar is also much better than the Obedience app. There's also a chat section in this app! You could also open the Our home on their website. I can't say anything that I dislike about this app. I would really recommend this app! 5/5 for me! 

Google Drive - I super love this app because we can easily share our files together. This is where my Daddy sets almost of my tasks and I just have to submit it. You can create folders, documents, submit pictures and videos. It helps us to stay organized and we are able to find a platform just for submitting the tasks. We can also store any what we want or our plans. It has 15.0 gb storage only which is the downside of this app but we plan to purchase additional gb and it's just affordable. We also get notifications everytime we add or upload something. I really love this app so much! 4.5/5 for me! 

Google photos - This is where we store our memories together though between has its feature already, we think it's more convenient here and easier to organize. We can also create and upload pictures of us that we both have access, so we could comment on it. 4.5/5 for me! 

Google Calendar - We use this also to share our schedules together or set important dates. We just shared our calendars together so I can see all his plans and schedules. You can also connect it on your phone calendar so you won't have to browse on their web site or download an app. I also use this to set the long term task and it reminds me beforehand.  4/5 for me!

Overview of the apps we use:

1. Between for everyday chatting 

2. Whatsapp for video calls 

3. Our Home for setting tasks

4. Google Drive for submitting tasks and storage for anything we want

5. Google photos for collecting our memories 

6. Google Calendar for our schedules 

It may seem too much but my Daddy really loves to be organized and these apps just made it easier for Long Distance like us. I hope I helped you too and don't forget to browse my other blogs at the upper right. Happy reading! xoxo

30 Days of Submission | Day 8

Like I've said in my previous question, I expected and accepted punishments in dynamics. I know punishments vary in different relationships. It depends what the dom and sub agreed to. Punishments do not have to be always corporal because there are kinds of punishments too. But yes, spanking and any corporal punishment are part of my submission. The little pain kinda excites me when my Daddy gives me spanking punishments. He is really balanced when giving me punishments. He doesn't always give me spanking/corporal punishments whenever I break his rules or tasks. He also disciplines me by writing lines, or sometimes not allowed to touch myself or cum. Punishments that I will get will also depend on how bad I did. If it's too heavy then harder punishments and when not much bad just lighter punishments. But when I do get spankings, I feel more submissive because it is a mix of pain and pleasure. I know Daddy will like to give me spanking me as well when we meet one day.

30 Days of Submission | Day 6

I feel the roots of my submission are from the people around me, influence of social media and also my preference. I think it really has something to do with my childhood but not entirely. My father passed away when i was at a young age, and I think that caused me to find someone who is like a father figure that I missed during those days who would guide and discipline me.  I know I still got the discipline from my mother but father and mother figure are far from each other. I think that's what they call momma's boy and Daddy's girl. I do not necessarily know if that's one of the reasons but social media really influenced me a lot. I know you cannot learn everything from the internet but I exposed myself too in Sub/Dom relationships and more kinks that is why it really influenced my way of thinking and also how would I act. 

For me, submission is not just about sexual thrill. I feel being submissive is already in me that someone or even myself can't remove it to my system. I know that I can be submissive inside our outside of the bedroom. My Daddy and I are also in a relationship and I know my Daddy still don't want me to feel dominated at all times because we are still a couple. I still like a little freedom he is giving even though I'm his sub and he does very well. He's not giving too much and too little just the right amount. I think those are the roots of my submission.

30 Days of Submission | Day 4

Big No. I never really see myself being a dominant in our BDSM relationship even the slightest. I just think that I do not have the qualities that Dominant has. In terms of in our relationship, I know that my Daddy asks  my opinions over things and let me decide for myself too. I do not consider that being switch. I guess that's still normal for Sub/Dom relationship. Doms consider the feelings of their little foremost and want what's the best for them. I really have a very submissive-softie-bratty character and I do not know if I can handle someone who share the same personality and characteristics with me. 

Being dominant is not an easy role. It requires so much patience, responsibility, understanding, compassion, consistency, and self-control. It is a responsibility that not everyone can do that is why I really admire my Daddy Dom. I really see that he puts so much effort and creativeness when it comes to our relationship. My Daddy is a very calm person, organized, and very patient especially to me. He is the perfect daddy dom for me and our personality really jives together which I love the most. I just know that the submissive is really in me and I am not planning or cannot really see myself being a switch.

Kinks of Sexy Vixen

      Hihi hi!!~ In this post I am gonna share in depth what my kinks and fantasies are. For sure I already mention a few or you already got an idea from my previous posts! But now I will share the full details. Maybe after reading this, you may also realize “Oh I love those stuff too!” or you may get interested in trying it as well! I also answered a Jar of Kinks and took a BDSM test and that will show the percentage of my kinkiness hihi!~

These are my kinks as of now and maybe I could have developed more in the future (who knows :3).

1.       DDLG – hihi yes ever since I fell in love with this Kink! I really love being treated like a little girl and having an authoritative figure that will care, discipline, guide, give tasks, rules, and punishments. I love it when my Daddy addresses me as a little girl or baby kitten hihi. I love to be bratty sometimes cause I think it’s fun :P I guess this kink satisfy my emotional needy little side.

·         Age play – Mhmm I really don’t know yet what my little age is. I just love to baby talk, do little stuff like dressing up as a little, having my stuffies and do cute stuffs :P

2.       BDSM – I really think Bdsm and Ddlg are interrelated kinks of mine. I can still be a little girl who submits to my Daddy Dom right?! But sometimes I prefer being treated like a slutty submissive by my Daddy :P I want my Daddy to be harder and rougher on me. Here are the things I like:

·         Roleplaying via chat (for now) since my I am currently in a Long Distance Relationship

·         Orgasm Denial - I always have an edging task every week *pouts

·         Spanking

·         Choking

·         Tying up

·         Gagging

·         Degrading ( a little)

·         I also love to dress up slutty!

3.       Pet play – I love to act and dress up like a kitten! Meow! Hihi funny story before my Daddy and I met, I was really scared of cats but funny how I want to become one now! *giggles* I like when Daddy will treat me like his kitten also I love the idea of being in a leashed, eating in a bowl or maybe in a cage.  I do have Kitty ears, Paws, Tail Plug!

My little friend sent me this one so I answered this Kink Jar :3

Here are also my results to BDSM test!

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Pet

100% Submissive

100% Brat

100% Rope bunny

97% Primal (Prey)

96% Slave

91% Boy/Girl

87% Experimentalist

84% Age player

69% Masochist

67% Voyeur

64% Exhibitionist

64% Degradee

34% Sadist

3% Vanilla  

           Hihi so those what I am really into! Waaah is it few or a lot?! Haha. Even I really do not have an actual experience yet, I already know I would to try all of these with my Daddy ^.^ Feel free to ask me more questions. You could also leave a comment! See you on my next post!~

Best Apps for Long Distance Daddy/Little

Hi! In this post, I will decide to share the best applications my Daddy and I using for Daddy/Little and Dom/Sub especially in a long distance relationship like us. I hope this can give you an idea, and you can also try to use this with your partner!

As we are in a long distance relationship, it is very challenging for us to keep connected and maintain a relationship when you are very far from each other. The only key to build a connection and your relationship with your Daddy/Little and Dom/Sub is to have a great communication. Chatting, video chat, calling makes me feel much closer to him and helps to create a deeper bond. There are available apps that are very useful and helping us to interact with each other. Here are some my personal favorite apps!

5. Kik - Kik is a great app to chat to with your partner. This is the first app we used, and we really used this for a long time. We video chat, also customize the color or the theme of the chat. For me, the bad side of this app is it does not have call and just video chat. Recently, they also removed the video chatting featured which is a big thumbs down. The conversation only have limited count of messages so if you are a type of person who loves to back read a lot, I think you won’t like this but it is also good if you are concerned about your safety.My rate is 3.5.

4. TeamViewer – TeamViewer is an app where you can connect your phone with your partner. You can see and even control their phone once you connected. Sounds promising right? Haha. My Daddy and I use this if we want to watch something together, hihi or if he only wanna show something to me. You just have to make sure you have strong internet connection so it will go smoothly.My rate is 4.

3.  Happy couple – This is a bit different app from the first two apps mentioned. It gets boring sometimes, so we decided to find an app that we can interact or play. It is a quiz style game that can let you discover what your partner feels. I really love this app because I tend to know more about Daddy’s thoughts and views. You just have to answer questions a day and you can see if you match or mismatch. It is very interesting way to strengthen our already existing relationship.My rate is 4.5.

2. Obedience: BDSM habit tracker app for couples – This is a veryyy helpful app for BDSM relationship or DDLG if you are in a long distance. My daddy can easily put the tasks he wants me to do, also the rules, punishment, and rewards! Daddy can also set the time. It is all in here! You can also avail the premium version because there are just limit for tasks. The only thing I do not like is the task section. I would put that I am done but the app won’t work right sometimes. I would talk more about this app in detailed in another post but overall I still like this app My rate is 3.5.

1. Between – This is my most favorite app! From Kik we start to use this app and we are using it up to this day. My Daddy and I can easily share pics, notes, voice records with each other that you can both browse.  We can set important dates, wallpapers, and cuteee stickers! And I looooove those! Haha. We can also easily view your conversation just by clicking the date we wanna view. We do not need to scroll back just to see our old messages. At first, we are just using the current version but my Daddy surprised me and bought the premium version for us! It is a lifetime purchase so we do not have to worry about paying. The additional features are great because you can upload more pics and send love letters!! I swear this is the best couple app ever! My rate is 5.

ANDD! I know you are wondering…. where do we video chat? We used Skype before but now we just use Whatsapp for video calling because unfortunately, there is no video calls in Between. I love how all these app bring me much closer and more interaction with my Daddy. It feels like he is just beside me :3. I would love to give all the credits to my Daddy because he is the one who made efforts to search for these handy apps! He is really committed in our relationship. How sweet!! <3

So those are my holy grails apps I used with My Daddy. These are all just my thoughts and opinions and I hope you can try these app too! See you in next post!

How I met my Daddy

Hi!! In this post, I decided to talk about how I met and where did I met my Daddy. I know you might be a little curious where, when and how I met him :P  

As a little that was only starting before, I really don't have an idea where and how would I find a Daddy or Dom. I am a clueless little. I asked myself, how could I find a Daddy? I know I just wanted a Daddy I could chat and talk over the phone. I'm not yet ready for meet ups!

I was only 16 when I started to search for my Daddy. It was summer when I got so into chatting to strangers. Omegle was sooo popular that time, so I got curious and try it out myself. You can use Omegle without registration so it is easy and not annoying unlike other sites. You can also add your interest or words that you are interested with. I find it fun and interesting to meet people from different country. I met nice and not so good people.

I got bored with using Omegle because much of bots and also perv guys so I searched for different websites. The second site I used is "Talkwithstranger". There is also no need to register. You just have to type the name you want to use and you can now talk with random strangers. It is just really random chosen unlike in Omegle that you can type your interest. Once I met a potential Daddy, we would add each other in Kik.

It wasn't easy to find a Daddy for me. I have trial and errors. I think my longest talk with a Daddy only lasted for a week or so but the rest it will just last up to 3 days or worse just the same day. I have met a lot of Daddies and some fake Daddies or dom that seems like all they want is to get naughty :/. They would entertain me and my questions first but soon they will ask for naughty stuffs. I know I am such a meanie little :P I am not quite sure if I had an hiatus in finding a Daddy. I mean, I go to school and do school works too so I am not always on that site.

>Faaaast forward<

So that was the two sites I used. But where did I met my Daddy? Guess it! . . Yup! I met him on Omegle around October 2018 and I was 17 turning 18 that time :3. We met because we had the same interest and that was a "Daddy" tag. I am really meticulous in finding my Daddy. I want a Daddy that does not only want naughty stuff. I want a caring and interesting to talk with. I prefer a Daddy aged 28-35 and he's 32! I just find this age bracket hot :P I don't really mind the age gap.

I cannot remember much what we talked about. But I always say for sure that I want a caring and not just naughty Daddy. I just remember that he did not try to ask naughty pictures or what at first and was really nice. We exchange some face pics and I think he was really hot and handsome haha. He was not much talkative so I was thinking should I still keep talking to him? I was chatting and entertaining some guys too so he was not the only guy I am chatting that time. We chatted for few days and he is the only one who lasted among the guys I am talking with.

We did not do sexual stuff at first so, I was like "Hmmm.. I like him" haha because the usual guys I met want only naughty stuff! so, my thoughts on him that he is patient :P I think I stopped talking or finding other guys after our days of talking. He is still timid but my inner little says I know I could bring out his true personality hihi. Maybe around a month or so after we met, we just started to discuss about sexual stuff. I mean we both know from the start that we are into Daddy and Little but ddlg and Dom/Sub have variations too. We discover and exchange questions about our likes, kinks and more. I really got comfy with him fast as he was very sweet and caring Daddy. He doesn't push me whenever I am not comfortable of what he wants. He barely even ask at first, maybe he was shy too? But it's cute 'cause seems like I am the one pushing myself to him haha.

Few weeks then turns out into months, we got closer and already build like the base of our relationship :3 I already call him Daddy already, and he calls me Kitten *blushes*. we explored first Pet play. I never tried Pet Play before but I ended up loving it.( Fun fact, I am scared of cats before I met him now I totally love cats and kitten!!) We did not have rules right from the start and we are just free to do whatever we feel like that day. I love how he treats me as a little. I never been treated this way before. We did soft first and now we are getting rougher and wilder :P.

For me, we are completely matched in terms of sexual stuff, and we get along really well. I love his personality and character. He is serious, loving, but also playful! :P. I like talking to him every day because he makes my day complete and he makes me feel happy and cared. We would do video calls and also call from time to time. The difference in our time is 5 hours or 6 hours so it wasn't that hard for us to find time for each other. I had 4 months school break too so we ended up almost spending each day together and get to know well. He really make efforts and shows how much he cared for me so I really ended up liking him. He is very dedicated on being a Daddy for him and I can feel and see that. We did not just connected sexually but also emotionally. I find my comfort in him. He is the perfect Daddy I could ever wish for and I could not ask for more.

We are together for 1 year and 3 months already and still counting. We are able to make the rules that we both agreed and punishments. We are not perfect Daddy little and Dom/Sub as we are still exploring and improving. I feel lucky that I met him and that we met each other. I am not afraid to explore and to try out things as long as I am with him. I love him and he will be my one only Daddy.

Sooo I hope you had fun reading "How I met my Daddy". I hope you will find the right Daddy/Litle for you too! See you on next post!

How did I become a little?

Now that I am in this age, I sometimes wonder how did it all start? Why did I end up liking this kind of relationship? How did I discover or develop my kinks? And how did I become a little? Now, I will give you a little flashblack..

I was in 6th Grade when I started to read in an e-book site called Wattpad. I became obsessive in reading romance, teen fictions, adventure, science fiction name it. Yep, my hopeless romantic self haha. So yeah here comes the 8th Grade. I was like.. the stories are too boring for me now, every plot now is cliché. 

Then, l discovered a R-18 Romance story oopss.. I will read whatever I want. No one can stop me haha. So basically, wattpad educated me. The terms that I am not familiar, I would search it up and ta-da! I have already watched porn but reading makes it safer! I was in 8th Grade when I experienced my first heart break then the stories I mostly read are men that are so mature, intimidating, dominant and such and that is when I promised myself that I won't like a boy anymore. I will find a man for me.

I just continued reading and that when I encountered terminologies such as Daddy, Little, Dominant, Age play, Pet Play, Submissive, Age-gaps, and BDSM. It all came to a point where I am just all reading about it and dreaming I will get a man and experience that too. I always find myself getting horny and would end up masturbating >//<. That is why I only got attracted to guys older than me. 

So I'm done with curiosity stage haha now after learning and having knowledge about it. What is the next step usually people do? I heard your answers! Yes we want to gain experience or try it ourselves because reading is not enough. I want more! I need more! 

At the age of 16-17 years old, My parents are strict and it is really impossible to find a guy that will be interested in me. No older guy will like a teenage girl like me. So I just explore in the Internet. There was a time here in our country were chatting online to strangers became so popular. I visited some sites and start chatting guys. 

It was no sexual at first but there was a guy who really persuaded me to take sexual pictures. I was so scared as it was my first time and I never take pictures of my private parts! I don't know what came into my mind but I obeyed him. I guess he was so experienced and so good at words and I felt the feeling I'm finding. Like it woke up my inner desires. 

I met a lot of guys and when I say a lot. It is really A LOT haha. As I meet each guy, the more I am discovering what are my preferences in finding my Daddy/Dom. There are guys who just wants to become sexual, there are guys who are so boring, weird, aggressive and more. I had a couple of Daddies but it really did not lasted for a long a time. Usually just a week or two and even just couple of days.

 I am really particular in finding my right Daddy. I did some pictures, videos also followed rules depending on the guy I met but no one really lasted because I would stop talking to them. I am now happy that I finally met my right Daddy and man for me. Hmm maybe I'll discuss more about that in different post :P

I really considered myself as a certified little! I love being little because I feel more comfortable and confident. I love being cared and getting attention and I also get to showcase my inner childish self haha. If you think you are interested in becoming a little, that is fine. There is nothing wrong with it. Do not be afraid to admit and be true to yourself. 

Soo that is the answer on "How did I become a litte?" I hope you had fun reading it and See you on next post! 

Know about me!

Meowie!~ Hi! I will start off by introducing myself. You can just call me Kitty or Kitten. I know it is a pretty common name but who does not like being called by a cutie name? :3 I consider myself as a little/submissive. I am 19 years old and just started my College life. I live in a warm country just like me! I would describe my physical appearance so you can visualize how I look. I am 5'3"ft (160 cm), I have a fair skin complexion, oval shaped head, big round dark eyes, full lips, straight black hair, and slim body or let say a very not athletic body hahaha.

I think my personality is just very simple and nothing really interesting. I am cheerful and shy at the same time. How is that possible? haha. I am very clingy, needy, emotional, affectionate, sweet, sensitive and caring little. I can be cute, sexy and bratty naughty kitten at the same time depends on my mood. I like to read and watch, hangout with friends like a normal teenager. Some may say I am very an open minded person. I love new ideas, and especially to try things out. I love to explore and discover more about my likes and kinks.

I am into daddy kink since I was 16 (so young haha). It all started with that until I discover more about BDSM, Age play, Role Play, Pet Play and I got more interested in trying all of it. It felt like I entered to a different world and said to myself " I feel free, I can express myself and I belong here".

Well, that was a really long introduction about myself haha, but hope you had an idea about me! I cannot wait to share my thoughts and experiences soon.