Having a Break in Dom/Sub Relationship

For almost 2 years, I'm proud to say that my Dom and I were very consistent in our Dom/Sub relationship despite the hardships that hindered us. He gives me tasks, orders, playtimes, and even exploring with other guys which I am happy to do so as his Submissive. So, in short it became a big part of us and our everyday lives. 

Recently, my Daddy (which is also my bf) and I have decided to have a break in our Dom/Sub relationship. It sounds frightening right? My first reaction was sadness and confusion. I thought everything was organized, perfect, and we're both happy but he asked for a break. I've also questioned myself, maybe I'm lacking as a submissive? The reason for a break was because of his own concern. 

Thoughts keep running in my mind, like how long will this break going to last? Is there a possibility that we won't continue again in our Dom/Sub relationship? What if it affects our relationship as a bf/gf? Is it going to be the same if we're back again? At first I was worried. My Daddy assured me that our bf/gf relationship isn't involved in this. I also realised that I know our relationship will be fine even without our Dom/Sub relationship. 

During our break, we just enjoyed our days just like a normal bf and gf. It's hard at first because you're used to do the routines and not involving about Dom/Sub but the break really did well and helped for both of us. 

After days or a week I think, my Daddy and I are back again finally! I'm his official sub again and we had few changes. We promised to ourselves that we will take things slow as he always say "Step by step" and we won't pressure ourselves. 

I think everyone shouldn't be scared of having a break. It's better to have a break than you push yourselves to do things that won't make you both happy. A little break is healthy too. It's a great way to sort and discover your feelings, certain things and re-thinking of the whole situation if it's really for you or not. Don't take it as a bad thing. We just really need to be open and honest with our partners to make the relationship work and last. :)

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Meet my best half

 To my Daddy Dom, 

I want to dedicate this blog post to the most loving and best person I know in the world who's always on my side and who owns my heart..not just my Daddy but also my boyfriend. I want to talk about him in my blog too so you kitties can also get to know the man who's always making me happy and the reason why I started blogging. I think you also deserved to know him too not just about me because he's the one who has a big part of me. I wouldn't be the same sexyvixen without him. 

Mhm Okay I would describe him as a very playful, confident, naughty, affectionate guy who's always eager to learn, explore and try things out. He's very sensitive about how others feel, especially me. He easily makes friends which is totally opposite of me nyahaha. He is easy to talk with. We all have our bad sides also but I don't love him less because of that. 

The moment I will open my eyes, our chats will be filled with his sweet morning messages and pictures sometimes that will make me smile and make my morning. 

He always makes sure to have a good day ahead for us even though he could be busy at work. He always makes sure to check me out always and tells me how much he misses me and leaves some tasks for me. Even on our bad days, he always makes sure we talk and make up and not send me to bed with a heavy feeling. Everynight, he tucks me to bed giving me and my stuffies kisses. He always makes sure to know what I'm feeling, he always hears me out, knows when I'm feeling heavy heart. He doesn't invalidate my thoughts and feelings. He always knows what are the right words to tell to calm me down. I couldn't ask for more right? I got the best Daddy and bf. He is my comfort and my shelter. I feel like sometimes I'm not doing enough for him because he really makes efforts for me and for us. He treats me like a little princess that everyone wishes for. I just want to say that I have the best Daddy and bf in the world and I'm so lucky that we found each other after years of searching. It's not easy to be in a long distance relationship but like he always says we make the best out of it and always find our way. 

Mhm I think the point of this blog is also to let your dom know you appreciate them because they also need affection and care what they give to us. Don't forget to show appreciation to our Doms! They are softie too like littles *giggles*

I just want to let people know that I have the most amazing Daddy ever.I know it's hard to be a Dom and I really appreciate everything he does. My Daddy couldn't be a perfect Dom or Daddy that others will describe but he always tries his best to be one for me. I love my Daddy slash my bf too with all my heart ♥

The Angrier the Rougher

Entry#1 08.03.20 

It wasn't the first time but it was on August 3, 2020 where my Dom and I had misunderstandings. It was normal for sub/dom relationships to happen. I broke his rule (not intentionally) even though I asked him because from what I understand. I really dislike when we are not fine and he told me to get ready for him at 3:30. I don't know what's going on his mind but me, I'm mixed between nervousness , excitement and also curiosity.

We started and he asked me some clips that arouses me a lot. I can feel that he's upset the way he uses words to me because it's more strict. He also instructed me to slap my tits hard which I did before but this time it's a lot of slaps. It's pain and pleasure for me and I knew I deserved this from disobeying him. I feel good that I'm getting this. I can feel the moist forming between my legs each time I slap my tits hard. The belt around my neck increases my arousal and from the videos I take from him.

He let me edge and do more vids for him before he let me cum. My Dom also came for me. I noticed that he's rougher and stricter to me even though I know that session  wasn't sort of punishment for him. I love the way he used and treated me after I did something wrong. I noticed also that I'm liking the pain. I guess I should purposely break the rules so he can take his anger on me? I won't complain *giggles* We cuddled after and felt much better, my Daddy never forgets his aftercare. It was really a memorable one. 

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Best apps for LDR Daddy/Little (updated version)

I've listed 5 of my fave apps before if you've read or saw in my previous post. I want to update you kitties, so here are the current apps we use! If you want to check out the previous one just click here.

Our Home - We are using this now instead of the obedience app to track my tasks, rewards, punishments. You just have to create a family and your Dom will be the admin. There are also categories which you can edit in whatever you like. You could also set points, image, time, reminder, add notes on each task you'll give. My Daddy placed the rewards to reward section and I have to buy it using the points I've earned. The timeline and the calendar is also much better than the Obedience app. There's also a chat section in this app! You could also open the Our home on their website. I can't say anything that I dislike about this app. I would really recommend this app! 5/5 for me! 

Google Drive - I super love this app because we can easily share our files together. This is where my Daddy sets almost of my tasks and I just have to submit it. You can create folders, documents, submit pictures and videos. It helps us to stay organized and we are able to find a platform just for submitting the tasks. We can also store any what we want or our plans. It has 15.0 gb storage only which is the downside of this app but we plan to purchase additional gb and it's just affordable. We also get notifications everytime we add or upload something. I really love this app so much! 4.5/5 for me! 

Google photos - This is where we store our memories together though between has its feature already, we think it's more convenient here and easier to organize. We can also create and upload pictures of us that we both have access, so we could comment on it. 4.5/5 for me! 

Google Calendar - We use this also to share our schedules together or set important dates. We just shared our calendars together so I can see all his plans and schedules. You can also connect it on your phone calendar so you won't have to browse on their web site or download an app. I also use this to set the long term task and it reminds me beforehand.  4/5 for me!

Overview of the apps we use:

1. Between for everyday chatting 

2. Whatsapp for video calls 

3. Our Home for setting tasks

4. Google Drive for submitting tasks and storage for anything we want

5. Google photos for collecting our memories 

6. Google Calendar for our schedules 

It may seem too much but my Daddy really loves to be organized and these apps just made it easier for Long Distance like us. I hope I helped you too and don't forget to browse my other blogs at the upper right. Happy reading! xoxo

Task Ideas for Beginners (LDR)

Hewwo kitties! ~ As you know I'm in a LDR with my Daddy and I know it's quite tricky to do DDLG or BDSM when you're not together. This could be a problem for first timers if you don't have any ideas or running out of task ideas to give to your littles but don't worry I got your backs!  I think these tasks will suite for littles and slaves. I will share what my Daddy gives me that I'm sure will help you too! 

1. Journal task - I write down my thoughts for the whole week. I do this weekly and you can choose to write it down on your notebook or type in your phone. For me, I type it then share to google drive because it's pretty long. It's also a nice feeling to express what's on your mind. This will be great to have an overview on what happened and also to let your Dom know your thoughts that I'm sure will help your relationship develop!

2. Orgasm Journal - I do this task whenever I cum. I write down in my notebook what are my likes and dislikes on our play and also what happened on our play. My Daddy reads it so he would know what to improve and what I like for better next plays. Doms will find this really helpful. 

3. Naughty Table - This is also included in my task where I need to track and record when and how much do I cum, edge, use my mouth and ass. Think this will be great too so you can see if you're having too much playtime or not. 

4. Submissive Poses - I practice different submissive poses every week. You can find a lot of submissive poses online and we use this also in our playtime. It helps me to get in my submissive mind. The poses have names so when my Daddy asked for a certain pose, I already knew what to do. This will be great to train submissives! 

5. Picture Session - I think this is my most favorite task to do. My Daddy sometimes chose pictures that I will imitate also, I can add what poses I want to do. Usually we do 10-15 pictures. He also chooses what I will wear and more details like if I would wear make up, hair, socks and such. 

6. Sucking video/picture - I do this depends if my Daddy will put it on tasks but it's usually to practice my sucking skills. Doms for sure will like to see how good their subs could suck. It can be done maybe once a week. The length of the vid and also what you wear can be decided by your Dom. 

7. Fucking ass - This is for anal lovers! I do this task once a week and it also to practice my ass for him. I just take pictures or sometimes video for him. 

8. No panties day! - We set a day where I won't wear panties for a day outside or inside of home! It's really a naughty and daring task and it gets comfy when it gets longer! 

9. Writing down things I want to do/to improve - I only get this task from time to time. My Daddy gives me a chance to voice out what I want to do with him even though it's naughty or not just everything. This will also give an idea to Dom what to do next. This gives the sub to think and to analyze their thoughts about themselves and wants. 

10. Edging task - Edging task is one of my favorite tasks too! This helps me to control my orgasms. I need to do edging at least three times a week even alone or with the help of my Daddy. My Daddy also helps me edge whenever we play and he'll just edge me and make me cum later or after a few days. 

That's that! I didn't not include the common tasks like eating, sleeping on time, greeting daddy, showing outfits etc. I think those are basic tasks. It is really  challenging when LDR because you always have to find new ways to explore things. It is somehow limited because not together but we should not let that stop us to do what we want. Hope you find this helpful. We can survive LDR!

30 Days of Submission | Day 8

Like I've said in my previous question, I expected and accepted punishments in dynamics. I know punishments vary in different relationships. It depends what the dom and sub agreed to. Punishments do not have to be always corporal because there are kinds of punishments too. But yes, spanking and any corporal punishment are part of my submission. The little pain kinda excites me when my Daddy gives me spanking punishments. He is really balanced when giving me punishments. He doesn't always give me spanking/corporal punishments whenever I break his rules or tasks. He also disciplines me by writing lines, or sometimes not allowed to touch myself or cum. Punishments that I will get will also depend on how bad I did. If it's too heavy then harder punishments and when not much bad just lighter punishments. But when I do get spankings, I feel more submissive because it is a mix of pain and pleasure. I know Daddy will like to give me spanking me as well when we meet one day.

30 Days of Submission | Day 7

Discipline and punishments are part of the dynamic or bondage. I think that is really the concept of the dynamics, to follow the rules and expect punishments if you break rules. So yes, I really do expect and accept any disciplines or punishments. I cannot imagine how the bondage will work without any punishments or expect disciplines. 

What I feel about punishments is that I dislike it. Punishments are supposed to be disliked by sub. I know my Daddy rarely punishes me and even reminds me sometimes about my tasks. When Daddy sets up a new task he gives me enough time to adjust before he becomes strict. I know he doesn't like giving me much punishment but when I really become a bad girl he's really giving hard punishments that will make me learn. Just receiving a chat from my Daddy in the morning, I start to get nervous because I know that I become a disobedient sub and I liked that feeling. It means that he scares me in a good way. 

Allowing my Dom to let me get punished is part of my submission. I gave him the allowance to discipline and punish me the day I submitted to him because I trusted him that he will take care of me, make me obey his rules and make me a responsible sub.