Sunday, October 25, 2020

For Little/Daddies who gets Jealous

It's normal in every relationship to get jealous from time to time. Well, let's admit we find it so cute sometimes when our Daddies or littles gets jelly and protective. I think I get more jelly than my Daddy most of the time because he's sooo good at controlling his jealousy especially if he's sharing me online with other guys. Me, uhmm I'm trying my best >:D.


I still get jealous but I think I'm better at it now than before and here are helpful tips my Daddy and I thinking or we did to deal with jealousy:


#1 Tell your little/Daddy that you're jealous - I know this is hard to do because we're already clouded with jealousy and all we could do is to be cold or be bratty. Communication is really the key and by letting them know you're bothered with something or someone it could be solved. Don't be afraid to tell them.


#2 Respond calmly - Okay so your little/Daddy told he/she is jealous.. What's next? Of course you should be calm and ask why it's making him/her jealous? Don't get angry that he/she got jealous. Of course he/she is concerned, loves you, could be insecure too. It is important how you respond or else he/she won't open up to you next time. 


#3 Assure him/her - there are really littles who have issues and insecurities mostly, also Daddies. Doesn't mean that they're Daddies they don't need assurance too. It's nice to hear words of assurance if possible everyday or from time to time. My Daddy knows I overthink a lot and it rarely happens now because he always assures me. 


#4 Know what are your roots of jealousy - the first tips can only help but targeting the real problem could solve it. Ask yourself why do you get jealous? Or does your Daddy/little give you a feeling that you should be jealous with someone? It could be about yourself and also your partner. Even if you're confident enough and you trust him/her fully but, if he/she's doing things that could make you really jealous it will really tear your confidence and trust. 


#5 Stop overthinking - it is hard not to do this especially if you're far away from each other but overthinking won't help and you'll just stress yourself. For example when they answered differently than usual or takes time to answer think of like.. He/she's probably busy at work, doing house chores or not his/her best day. Try to think positive when you notice you starting to think negative. 


#6 Let them know/feel that you trust them - it feels really good when you know/feel that your little/Daddy trusts you. Stop throwing doubts but instead tell them you trust them and you know they can't do that. 


Always remember that be open to your Daddy/little. My Daddy and I are always proud on how open we are and we always say and believe that "Every little and Daddy feeling matters." Show this to your Daddy/littles too! It will work more if you're both trying! 


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Sunday, October 18, 2020

My Little space and my kitten space

In my little space, my Daddy easily knows if i want to go in my little space. I know it's not just me but at first, I know I'm little but not the kind of little who has little age. As we explore more, I'm able to distinguish my little age which is 6-9 years old. It's also not bad if you don't have little age so don't get worried ~


My Daddy treats me much much sweet when I'm in little space. I mean he's sweet already but you know he gets extra sweet when I'm in my head space! He would make me go color watch my cartoons, sit on his lap, spin me in the air and talk with my stuffies (Doggy and Winter ^_^) and much more! I enjoy being little because I'm not having negative thoughts and feeling bad. It's a cute little who will not mind anything else but just be a cutie! 



I'm not just not a little but I'm also a cutie little kitten! My Daddy and I really started with kitten plays. I'm not really a kitten at first but he trained me very well. We bought some kitten costumes and made me do some tasks that will make me bring out the kitten inside me *rawr* like dressing up as kitten, doing gestures of a kitten, drinking on a kitten bowl, roleplay as kitten, doing a vid for him acting like a kitten and simply he treat me so well like real kitten so it isn't hard for me to be in my kitten space. I really fell in love being a kitten. 


I've noticed that there's a little difference when I'm either in my little space and kitten space.


In my little space, I tend to do or be more:

-Extra Clingy

-Sweet

-Needy 

-Emotional

-Carefree 

-Craves for sweets

-Cuddle and play more with my stuffies 

-Passive

-Likes hair strokes

-Cuddles

-Likes belly rub 


While in my kitten space, I tend to do or be more:

-Less talkative 

-Clingy

-Touchy

-Playful 

-Bratty 

-Suckling Daddy's finger

-Feisty 

-Like fur strokes 

-Like belly rubs


If you'll ask me which I prefer more, if being in a little space or kitten space? It's really hard to choose between because both give a unique feeling to me when I'm in that state. I've been in my little space a lot of times unlike kitten space that's why I would love to explore more and be trained as a kitten. Having a Daddy is a big help to put me in my little and kitten space but we 

,littles, can still experience it even just by ourselves!



I couldn't say, my kitten and little space are both different personalities of me that I'm able to showcase because in the end it's still really me and I just do and act the way I want to. The most important is we are comfy in what we do and feel and don't force anything and everything will be fine! 



What about you guys? Do you also get into little and kitten space? ^_^


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Sunday, October 11, 2020

Cumming with Daddy's Voice record

Entry #3 10.07.20


Usually, playtime happens by chatting and also video calling. What my Daddy did is something unique and special. My Daddy has left me 3 voice records at night. I'm only allowed to open it as soon as I wake up. 


I put on my earphones hastily and click the first voice record. My ears are welcomed with his soothing voice. He instructs me to pull down my pants before we start. I thought it could be some sweet morning message but it's an instructional voice record. 


I closed my eyes before I continued. I start rubbing and teasing my pussy slowly. I can feel myself submitting, nodding and responding to him even though it's just his voice command. I teased my clit slowly and a  lil faster then slowly again feeling ending up with a wet pussy. His voice is enough to make me wet and imagining him stroking his thick cock while he commands me. 


I get myself close before  listening to the second recording. He made me use two fingers and my pussy glides easily. I took a pic of my pussy stuffed with my fingers and continued to masturbate until I'm close again. Daddy's moans and praises makes me hornier. Like "You're doing great little girl" "Daddy is stroking his cock" and more hihi. 


After a few mins of fingering myself, I can feel myself getting close and ready for the last voice record. I wasn't sure if I'll cum at the end so my insides got more excited when the first thing I heard is I will cum On daddy's count. I feel so horny and trying to hold as much as I can. I fucked my pussy harder and deep while holding and listening to the countdown. My actions are rougher when closer and my pussy came so hard when Daddy said cum. I can feel my pussy clenching around my fingers. He also says sweet messages and tells how good I am after cumming. 


It was really a new experience for me for being ordered with Daddy's voice than just leaving an instruction. It feels more sensual and personal like he's just really by my side. I will love to hear him command me because it turns on my submissive side.



What about you guys? Have you experienced something similar to this? You can share it in the comments below! ^_^  



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Friday, October 2, 2020

Risky Frisky Video Call

Entry# 2 09.24.20

This day we scheduled our video call because I'm never alone and just when we have a chance. My Daddy decided to do extra to make our call much fun *winks* and there goes the vibrator that he can control. We connected it and you know where I placed it hihi. We talked normally first then just a few mins the fun will start. (Btw my sis is just outside and she can barge in anytime because we share rooms.) I think it adds to my excitement that I'm doing something really naughty with my Daddy and I could get caught any minute. 


I try to make straight face because I don't want to let him know that I'm getting affected with the vibrations and just continue to talk. He playfully increase and decrease the speed and I can't help but to whimper already because the teasing is getting intense. I would glance at the door incase my sister will get in and stare again with my Daddy. I'm staring at him and seeing my face on the screen. I know how he likes to see me enjoying and being controlled by him. It makes me so horny too that I'm being controlled and watched by him. He wants me just too keep looking at him. He don't want to leave my eyes on him. He keeps saying "Look at me" and I feel hypnotized with his words and just really be controlled by him.


He don't need to see my whole body just to get aroused, even just my reactions he gets aroused. I plead to him if I can cum and he granted. I came sooo hard on my first cum but the vibrations didn't stop. I came the second time again still looking at him. I thought it was over but it isn't. I came hard the 3rd time and feel my legs shaking from intense cumming. I thank him and continued our call. It was a really memorable naughty call that I would love to try again! 



What about you guys? Have you done any memorable risky calls too with your sub/doms? Don't be shy. You can share it below the comment section. ^_^



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Thursday, September 24, 2020

Having a Break in Dom/Sub Relationship

For almost 2 years, I'm proud to say that my Dom and I were very consistent in our Dom/Sub relationship despite the hardships that hindered us. He gives me tasks, orders, playtimes, and even exploring with other guys which I am happy to do so as his Submissive. So, in short it became a big part of us and our everyday lives. 


Recently, my Daddy (which is also my bf) and I have decided to have a break in our Dom/Sub relationship. It sounds frightening right? My first reaction was sadness and confusion. I thought everything was organized, perfect, and we're both happy but he asked for a break. I've also questioned myself, maybe I'm lacking as a submissive? The reason for a break was because of his own concern. 



Thoughts keep running in my mind, like how long will this break going to last? Is there a possibility that we won't continue again in our Dom/Sub relationship? What if it affects our relationship as a bf/gf? Is it going to be the same if we're back again? At first I was worried. My Daddy assured me that our bf/gf relationship isn't involved in this. I also realised that I know our relationship will be fine even without our Dom/Sub relationship. 



During our break, we just enjoyed our days just like a normal bf and gf. It's hard at first because you're used to do the routines and not involving about Dom/Sub but the break really did well and helped for both of us. 



After days or a week I think, my Daddy and I are back again finally! I'm his official sub again and we had few changes. We promised to ourselves that we will take things slow as he always say "Step by step" and we won't pressure ourselves. 



I think everyone shouldn't be scared of having a break. It's better to have a break than you push yourselves to do things that won't make you both happy. A little break is healthy too. It's a great way to sort and discover your feelings, certain things and re-thinking of the whole situation if it's really for you or not. Don't take it as a bad thing. We just really need to be open and honest with our partners to make the relationship work and last. :)



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Wednesday, September 2, 2020

Meet my best half

 To my Daddy Dom, 


I want to dedicate this blog post to the most loving and best person I know in the world who's always on my side and who owns my heart..not just my Daddy but also my boyfriend. I want to talk about him in my blog too so you kitties can also get to know the man who's always making me happy and the reason why I started blogging. I think you also deserved to know him too not just about me because he's the one who has a big part of me. I wouldn't be the same sexyvixen without him. 



Mhm Okay I would describe him as a very playful, confident, naughty, affectionate guy who's always eager to learn, explore and try things out. He's very sensitive about how others feel, especially me. He easily makes friends which is totally opposite of me nyahaha. He is easy to talk with. We all have our bad sides also but I don't love him less because of that. 


The moment I will open my eyes, our chats will be filled with his sweet morning messages and pictures sometimes that will make me smile and make my morning. 


He always makes sure to have a good day ahead for us even though he could be busy at work. He always makes sure to check me out always and tells me how much he misses me and leaves some tasks for me. Even on our bad days, he always makes sure we talk and make up and not send me to bed with a heavy feeling. Everynight, he tucks me to bed giving me and my stuffies kisses. He always makes sure to know what I'm feeling, he always hears me out, knows when I'm feeling heavy heart. He doesn't invalidate my thoughts and feelings. He always knows what are the right words to tell to calm me down. I couldn't ask for more right? I got the best Daddy and bf. He is my comfort and my shelter. I feel like sometimes I'm not doing enough for him because he really makes efforts for me and for us. He treats me like a little princess that everyone wishes for. I just want to say that I have the best Daddy and bf in the world and I'm so lucky that we found each other after years of searching. It's not easy to be in a long distance relationship but like he always says we make the best out of it and always find our way. 


Mhm I think the point of this blog is also to let your dom know you appreciate them because they also need affection and care what they give to us. Don't forget to show appreciation to our Doms! They are softie too like littles *giggles*


I just want to let people know that I have the most amazing Daddy ever.I know it's hard to be a Dom and I really appreciate everything he does. My Daddy couldn't be a perfect Dom or Daddy that others will describe but he always tries his best to be one for me. I love my Daddy slash my bf too with all my heart ♥

Sunday, August 30, 2020

The Angrier the Rougher

Entry#1 08.03.20 

It wasn't the first time but it was on August 3, 2020 where my Dom and I had misunderstandings. It was normal for sub/dom relationships to happen. I broke his rule (not intentionally) even though I asked him because from what I understand. I really dislike when we are not fine and he told me to get ready for him at 3:30. I don't know what's going on his mind but me, I'm mixed between nervousness , excitement and also curiosity.


We started and he asked me some clips that arouses me a lot. I can feel that he's upset the way he uses words to me because it's more strict. He also instructed me to slap my tits hard which I did before but this time it's a lot of slaps. It's pain and pleasure for me and I knew I deserved this from disobeying him. I feel good that I'm getting this. I can feel the moist forming between my legs each time I slap my tits hard. The belt around my neck increases my arousal and from the videos I take from him.


He let me edge and do more vids for him before he let me cum. My Dom also came for me. I noticed that he's rougher and stricter to me even though I know that session  wasn't sort of punishment for him. I love the way he used and treated me after I did something wrong. I noticed also that I'm liking the pain. I guess I should purposely break the rules so he can take his anger on me? I won't complain *giggles* We cuddled after and felt much better, my Daddy never forgets his aftercare. It was really a memorable one. 


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